It's fun to keep score in sports and card games.

But in marriage it puts you and your husband on opposite teams.

It’s exhausting to constantly keep a mental tally of all the ways he doesn’t appreciate you or that he’s holding you back. But it can feel so necessary. The problem with keeping score (or a mental tally) is that it has you working AGAINST your husband instead of with him. What if you didn’t have to keep score AND things could change in your marriage? Click below for a short video on how to stop keeping score, create a rock solid marriage, and focus on solving problems together instead of pointing fingers.

The work I did with Sara helped transform some tricky relationships in my life. Rather than carry hurts and tiptoe around conversations, I have used tools I learned in our coaching sessions to connect with important people in my life in ways I never thought possible. Coaching has reached every corner of my emotional life in an incredibly positive way.

Becca S.

I came to Sara not feeling supported in my hopes and dreams, but I learned how to voice my opinion and how to manage my feelings. I also learned how to not make myself a bad person for feeling a certain way. Now, instead of using my energy to carry around resentment and anger, I am pursuing my dream job while still taking care of my children and supporting my husband in medicine.

Christy W.

I felt so comfortable being vulnerable with Sara. I learned how to grieve and move through my life without fear or feeling bad. I learned to be my own best friend. Everyone in my family has benefited from that. Honestly I was worried that the cost wouldn’t be worth it but it sooo was. Through her coaching I was able to untangle the problems in my life and be the person I want to be, regardless of what other people I love choose to do.

Marie P.

I was worried that coaching would reveal a huge flaw in me that I wouldn’t be able to “fix”, but instead I learned how to hold space for whatever I’m thinking and feeling. I never felt judged but also never felt coddled so I was able to accelerate my growth so much.

Stacey C.

I've come to really know that I have incredible worth and have so much value to add to this world by being true to myself, which includes accepting my feelings and my flaws. Sara's compassion has taught me that I can show true compassion to myself. Through coaching I have empowered myself to create a life that I truly love.

Jani B.

Coaching opened to me a totally new way of dealing with situations/people that used to cause me so much anxiety and relational issues. I always had concrete steps to take away after our sessions. It might sound silly but knowing that she is a doctor's wife helped me a lot in building that trust.

Irene S.

Hi, I’m Sara,

Master Certified Relationship Coach.

Like you, I know that nothing matters more in my life than the quality of my relationships.

Especially my marriage.

But being married to someone with a demanding job can take it’s toll on you. On him. And on your whole family.

It can be really lonely sometimes.

I remember ping-ponging back and forth between silently resenting how much my husband’s career stole our time with him and guilt, believing I should just be grateful. I often found myself thinking, ‘We did all that…for THIS?!’

I knew a rock solid relationship was possible for us–I just didn’t know HOW.

Discovering coaching changed all of that for me.

Things can change for you, too.

Ready to stop feeling angry at your husband

before he even walks through the door tonight?

Not keeping score doesn’t require you to keep quiet and silently seeth while doing everything on your own. It does help you let go of anger and resentment and focus on solutions instead of scoreboards. It means you make room for working together instead of feeling isolated and alone.

It's fun to keep score in sports and card games.

Hi, I’m Sara,

It can be really lonely sometimes.

Ready to stop feeling angry at your husband

Learn how to become an equal player in your marriage.